Food for thought !!!

People meet, People depart..we meet to make good memories and depart to preserve it forever.

Everyday we meet different people and they have impact on our life in someway. And the funny thing is that we realize the value of something only when it begins to leave us. When we are snuging with our friends then we don't need any special person's company but to express our inner emotions we need someone our own. With whom, when we talk, we don't feel to give second thought or feel pity for any of our nostalgic feelings.

She was waiting for him to come and pick her but the time was moving at such a slow pace that passing a single second become hard. At last after a hour wait he appears wearing white polo and a khaki. since a long time plan they were moving to a Music store . She was looking for Ronan Keating's collection. There she got her CDs. Actually he got to know about her when she joined the same firm in which he was working...He planned to have a coffee with her...initially she refused but there was a appeal or an attraction in the boy which she couldn’t go without noticing... and they decided to meet in Delhi for a simple coffee ... nearby Lajpat and as the time elapsed the girl poured all her sentiments and feelings to him...may be at some extent the boy was right..They enjoyed a good time together...but one thing that guy was lacking was that he lacked the mindset to commit any relation or was it that he simply couldnt take her throughout his life!!!! This thought seemed to have dazed her. She's in a melancholic state now.

I remembered a line from one of my favourites..
The fame thing isn't real... I'm still just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.

Nothing as we wish..
what happened to the relation of he and she ..its over like every second relation on this earth :( .. hmm...
They stand in that corridor -- in that small space. Saying goodbye. A strange feeling of intimacy. She leans forward and she kisses him. Total silence. A real sense of the strangeness of those lips, those lips on his. They part.

And it comes to an end.

so truly said ..from one's point of view..after having steadiness in our life we always want a person who loves you not for your name, job, or fame but for what you are, your true self.

People have a quite good relations and even then they give it the name of friendship. Even though there are many circumstances in which the two might be more than just friends. But a fear of acceptance is always playing in back foot. Is it RIGHT?? Oh God .. I m confused.

Bless them .

We become so much dependent on other..we need them in even in our minute decisions..everytime looking for them but if you are looking for a future with him/her, then you should have courage to sustain that relation throughout..at least you must make some certainty in your life. People are more biased for understanding ..mature ..or so..but have you ever thought for yourself being in the same shoe ...most of us say No. This is such a fragile relation that needs to be given proper care and nurture. We desire to earn money, and eventually when we got all these materialistic things, we realised that we are still empty hands... searching for an emotional support ..a person who can interestingly, patiently try to put rhymes with our tune …...give satisfaction. Nothing in life is permanent but, when a relationship ends, rather than becoming bitter, we must learn the lesson to savour the memory of good things while they lasted.

Me and common cold.

Last night I couldn't sleep. I was tossing and turning and after about 4 hours of shut eye I woke up this morning feeling awful. I had to work today and my cold felt like someone had hit me over the head...with a hammer. Naturally, as a normal being , I took the afternoon off work citing my illness as the flu.......I just want to get out of this cold..ahh ..its choking me and am not able to help it out.
Oh God there is nothing to eat ..why this is happening to me ..what will happen to my diet plan ?
I ordered that ‘chane kulche’ from nearby Chaddha foods..thanks to Chaddha uncle.
Last but not least me and one of my roomies planned to have juice and its taste was real painkiller.
God send someone..oh please .. to save me from this cascading incident since last night. The inhaler is pathetic and the cold is worsening every second..i need a sound sleep or a week long break. But none is meant for me.

After having a hot coffee with combiflam ..I m feeling a little bit relaxed.. again back to work..let do something meaningful.

Happiness !!!!!!!!

I m feeling very much hungry ..what shud i do..oh my God..its same thing patties, cakes, chips..ohhh i dont want to become like a couch potato...hey God ..

Weather outside is so calm and lite breeze is there. Need some company to go out for a morning walk..shall i ask him..no no ...it will not look good..who cares ...on the grass with barefoot..feeling the dews ..alas its office hours..ohh wat the hell i m doing here ...but why i m thinking in that ways ....enjoy each moment as it will never repeat itself.

But wat shall i do now..hmm..an idea cliché in ..yup i can always hav a maggi my all time favourite since my grads... now i can write something good so that i can reciprocate something from it.

Now i m full and happy ......and the happiness..smile... When you are able to give other people joy and put a smile on their face, especially when they need it most, you will be giving them the greatest gift you can give. One such moment occurred for me when I was very late for an appointment and frustrated at getting every red light. As I sat fuming at the latest stop, I noticed a little boy in the school bus next me making silly faces at people. Watching him made me feel happy. I wrote this moment down in my notebook.Such things happen usually but we move on without noticing it.

How many happy moments are you missing in your day? Try noticing them...we often miss them. Evry time we r busy in simulation or diagnostic.. we easily forget these bubbly moments of our life and everytime compelling ourself in that monotonous routine.We need to break free of these self-imposed prisons.When something wonderful happens to us, we usually know we're happy. It's the common, everyday moments of happiness that often elude us.It's hard to feel happy when you're focused on the negative. Like a big pimple on our face, what we don't like can seem to be much more obvious than what we do like. Unfortunately, the more we focus on the negative, the more likely that's all we'll see.

Some time we should be like madcap and shud allow the flow of thoughts....am i became a zany......ah......i think i shud stop here!!!!!!!!!!!!! enough for the day..

Express it at times

Today i had a calm discussion with one of my colleague ..she was disturbed .. after a pause a thought came in my mind.

It is so hard when you love someone so much. Life is short...One should always show their love the depth of their love everyday and remind them that they are loved in so many ways. Tomorrow may be to late. If love ends, you both lose. Live like there is no tomorrow...hold the one you love today.

The importance of not taking for granted every second you have in a relationship because you never know when it could be taken away from you, and how all of your actions have tremendous meaning in yours and your loved ones lives.

But even though knowing this fact people don't express their feelings ...its not always a luv b/w a guy an a gal ..it may be a true friends..or some senior person ..some colleague..anyone.